Expect to be competing for his attention, time and money. It takes two people to make a child and they have to work together to raise it. Case in point, this baby mama knew enough to hide her crazy until this guy got her pregnant. Part of me wants to end it so he can figure out his situation first. I was more nervous about meeting his child. I felt that he was not willing to break what he had with the baby mother - to start fresh with me. My boyfriend is upfront with everything I just don't want to keep asking him what is going to happen or how he's feeling.
If he is allowing her to do what she is doing, then he is moron who wants his bread buttered on both sides. . Share Tweet Copy Link Copied Men are always talking about how much they love their kids, but they don't always mention their baby mamas. No body is perfect so you cannot blame people for that. That is just a sign of disrespecting you.
It is unacceptable for her to be calling for utter nonsense, the only time she should be calling would be in an emergency with the kids. He loves his baby mama ad the mother or his child,you gotta realize that there is no end to that relationship. You need to ask him if you are his priority or just an option. What if she is also pretending to care for him and she just thinks that he's in love with her? I'm not sure why she insists on coming along. If she tries to take full custody, he can fight it out in court, and if she lets him go, then they'll both be happy. I just want some advice he is a very hands on dad and I admire that. Does he stay away because the baby mama keeps trying to get him to do things he doesn't want to do or is too nervous - or even too afraid - to participate in? Your bf may be honest but that doesn't mean you can't still get hurt.
If he loved you, he wouldn't break off an engagement. His daughter is now 18 months and we have been dating for the past three months. Trust me when I say she will try to break the both of you up even if she is with someone else. He comes home that is how we spend time together. She needs to move on already and snap back into reality, where she needs to be focusing on their child, not on the baby daddy. In the event that I got the wrong woman pregnant, I see it making for an awkward and unhealthy environment for my child.
She is doing it to make her think that something is going on between them, and to try to make her jealous. This has caused friction in our relationship, I just dont know how to move past this. No matter how he treats his baby mama, he's going to remain a part of her life because he is part of their child's life. Your man should not be discussing you with her. If you become pregnant, your child with him may have to endure this same absence. Just because you fancy him it doesn't mean that you have to let him have his way with you. Speak up, tell him how you feel and if he doesn't take a stand then you know that he really isnt worth it.
Put a stop to it now or you will regret it. I am in a relationship with a man who Ive known since I was 19. If, however, this person is stretching the truth, then he's right - he'll never have full custody, and the best he can do is spend as much time with his son as possible. I wonder if he still has a Key,? Me and her have got into it twice, but that was because she started to keep his son away from him. So my bf still has the same number and still on T moblie I have tolsd him numerous of times that if he doesn't break ties with her far as bills, cars in her name and etc we cannot be together.
You hooked up with him at work? I'm grown and mature and he is very mature for his age. He keeps momentos or things of hers. No matter what, the communication must stay open. But sometimes exes blur the lines and are involved in more than parenting. Everything has gone great and we are emotionally connected big time.
If you ever catch your man doing this, tell him that what he does is not okay. You have to be a strong, confident woman for yourself and trust the man you're with. He tells me and her that he only wants to be with me. You might be someone he's setting up to use and misuse. This whole idea that women should have to settle is utter bs. Co-parenting means he will have to communicate with the mother of his children and their ease of communication due to familiarity may offend you, especially if you're just starting a relationship with him.