I know he got my messages yesterday i messaged him on facebook and it tells you exactly when he read it which was this morning around 8. Sometimes it is good to check as it is an indication if someone has been online and is not answering you back anymore that I can move on. I had on Sunday deactivated mine. He said he had in the past gone from one serious relationship to another and wants to see what dating around is like. I fear that if I keep giving myself to him, I will end up hurt if he decides to meet someone else online and leave me. If you do not know after a month of seeing someone if you would like to eliminate the rest to give her a fair shake, recognize that there is something that is not resonating for you and the best course of action is to be direct and tell her. He held my hand he put his arms round me and we had a lovely time once more.
His job is stressful right now, but in my mind, if you like someone a minute or two to send a quick hello is not a big deal. The important point was that my partner knew about my membership of the site throughout. Kapri May 3, 2012 It saddens me to read all these stories becuase I am on the same exact boat as most of you. He also said he has friends he talks to but no one that he is seeing or dating. I am just going to start dating other people and not even worry about it.
You can read a book together but if he turns around and starts putting a profile online, what good has it done? I had touched on a similar topic last year in my post. I am in the same boat and I wil be having a discussion with my so called guy about this asap. Found his Facebook page and his relationship status says involved with another girl. Then today I searched again and it said active in 3 days. The whole profile is completely updated.
His comments were somewhat flirty, which stung. This whole thing is eating me up. After that we never said another word about it and have been hanging out like nothing happened. I offered my patience in return for his honesty. The past 3 days have been really wierd, we were suposed to go see a movie together after i was off work and i hadnt heard from him since noon, had texted him quite a few times with no response. I have been seeing Darren for two months. The day we said we would be exclusive I changed my profile to indicate I wasnt looking, I didnt hide it but made it clear on my profile my status, he could have done that without knowing how to hide it, did he? What do you all think about this guy? Let your friends know about us.
They'd be fairly self-evident I would imagine. Consider: Your reasons for joining online site. I don't know this guy so I can only apply my framework to this - he's probably interested but also not putting all of his eggs in one basket. He talks marriage, knows my ring size, and talks about our future and potential children. February 27, 2012 Brad, This seems to be a reoccurring incidence, but if you could help me clarify my situation I would appreciate it.
He said that I was making a big deal out of nothing. Recent questions: Dear Guys, K, my boyfriend of two years was on dating sites the entire relationship. So, why is he with me if his dream girl is so different? I hope he comes around to appreciate what he has instead of worrying about what he might be missing out on! He has met my family and gets along great with them, I have met his mom and some of his friends. You sign on - to see if he's signed on. He kept his profile online and then during a period where he was busy he removed the profile.
Recently, he mentioned that he logged in to the dating website to see messages we had sent one another in the beginning. The last time I met a guy on line and we decided to be exclusive, nothing more was ever said about whether our profiles were still up. January 6, 2012 Emma — I think you should gently ask him about it but not attack him about it. I have only been seeing this guy for three weeks. The truth is, you now understand better where you stand and it may or may not be a committed relationship in the future. He goes to this site and changes his status without thinking about his profile text and logs out. I just turned 22 and he wil be turning 30.
If you two have different expectations, you are not on the same page. The keep saying they will hav a good future together and will make them proud if they get married one day. June 17, 2011 I met him through an online dating site six months ago. I have now been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Seemed we were perfect together with him professing his love and talking of marriage. Even so, I have clear boundaries.
We actually met up about a month ago and got along great and have a lot of fun together. It seems to have disappeared overnight and I feel lousy and worthless. If being online and chatting to other girls was face to face lets say and you met a man in this way. Part of me thinks he may be online checking to see if I'm on which I am not since I can canceled my membership. May 15, 2011 Juls — my personal opinion is that you have every right to be concerned. Tanya March 12, 2012 I met this guy on Match. I don't do either, check out matches or viewed me pages but I don't get a kick out of it, so why would I.
My best advise is to just kick him to the curb, any man that would stay with you 3 days a week and still search online is looking for something else. I relaxed and began to enjoy the journey, tentatively falling a little by little for him. I get some great emails from people that lay out their feelings, what they hope for, and describe how confusing things are for them. In your case, he asked you to be his girlfriend…he needs to cut out the unnecessary continuation of online dating now. If things go well with the second guy, I would considering breaking it off with guy 1 even though guy 2 is going to be away next month for the whole month, If date 2 goes well I would wait for him. Ive never dated a forum poster and when things become exclusive, Id want to see us both close accounts and focus on real life.